- As far as we know there is no danger to us or our area due to the earthquakes and aftermath. We're safe here.
- The government has authorized essentially an all-expenses-paid round-trip to our location of choice anywhere in the States.
- We're not likely to come back for at least 30 days, and I would guess longer.
- We JUST did a deployment. My husband's only been back less than 2 months and this trip would mean being separated again for a time TBD.
- We have family in the States that would really love the opportunity to spend time with their grandbaby.
- This authorization has the potential to be cancelled at any time, meaning we lose our opportunity to go for free.
- I don't really want to go but don't know that we can pass up the chance to spend time with extended family.
- The trade-off is being separated from our immediate family (Daddy).
- There's a one-year-old baby that's going to be affected strongly by any decision we make.
We're stuck. Praying and thinking and trying to figure out answers. What would you do?
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Ugh, that's a tough one. Things I would consider: Are spouses hours affected by all that's going on there? Could you afford a family trip later? Is another deployment looming out there glaring at me?
I would probably take the opportunity if my husband was working longer hours and if finances played a big part. I was always close to my grandparents and I take every opportunity I can to make sure our daughter is able to have as close a relationship as possible.
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My husband is stationed over there but I'm in the U.S. so I'm not in your situation.
It is a tough situation. I can't imagine having to go through it. I admit I'd be tempted to come to the U.S. and get away from there for a bit. I know you would be separated from your husband for a while and that would suck but work may keep him busy anyway. It is a tough call. I'll be praying for you guys.
That's a hard one! Praying for wisdom:)
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